Phillip Aubrey (star of Men In Stockings, Fuck Me Hard, Lust, and the upcoming Kings of New York) recently chatted with XXFactor.com. Here’s what he had to say about sex, love, the world outside porn, and his boyfriend Spencer Reed!
Phillip Aubrey’s versatility as a performer hinges not so much on whether he’s a top or a bottom as it does on his ability to undertake roles involving bondage, depravity, fluff, kink and romance with equal panache and heat. He can also twist himself like a pretzel or a corkscrew, offering appealing views and full access to any man who is about to ravage him. His fluency in body language has few peers and his roles in Lucas Entertainment’s Lust, Men in Stockings and Fuck Me Hard seem to bring out his best qualities and most abject need.
What’s the best thing about your penis?
The best thing about my penis I guess would be its shape. I’m a grower, not a shower, which is irritating at times. But its a good 8.5 thick and nice color and shape.
What was your personal path to performing in porn?
My personal path has changed throughout the past year or so. At one moment I thought it was taking off after I did one of my first films, Taken, with C1R. It was the only thing I did in 2009, unfortunately, but this year I’ve done some amazing work with Lucas Ent. whom I’ve enjoyed working with very much. Where I want to go with my career in porn is undetermined. I would love more work and to work with as many companies as possible for as long as possible and just enjoy it while it lasts.
What will give you an orgasm that makes you levitate?
Levitating orgasm…? Well, I’m completely versatile. Spencer Reed is my partner who just turns me on, on every level. When he is intimate and kisses me while he grinds against me,he hits every spot in my body. It’s the intimacy that really fuels my engine if you know what I mean.
What fetish do you have that we might not see in your movies?
Secret fetish? I really like my feet played with. Love my toes to be sucked. But the big hush hush is I have a serious food fetish. Nothing turns me on more than playing with food… desserts, cakes, pasta, etc.
You’re going to direct a porn scene. Who’s in the scene and what happens?
The arab porn superstar houssen from Arabian Nights. He is so hot. I would want to be a guy moving into my new house and he would be the moving guy and I would help him and corner him into a room where I would seduce the hell out of him. I know its not that big of an ooh ahhh but I’m a simple guy. Hairy masculine men are just the cat’s meow to me.
If you could spend 24 hours doing anything you want with any person on the planet, whom would you choose and what would you do?
I would choose my boyfriend Spencer Reed. He’s my baby. I hate to not be with him. I would want to be on a private island surrounded by mountains and waterfalls and swim in crystal blue water and make love on the beach all day and bathe in the waterfalls. Nothing fancy, just natural environment with nothing else but ourselves. Oh yeah, some horses on the beach would rock.
Share your weirdest come-on, either given by you or to you.
I love my neck being kissed. I love it when someone makes out with my earlobes and around my neck… oooohhhhhh yeah.
What is the fastest way to get you into bed?
Tell me you love me. j/k. Someone who puts a fight for me, who takes the extra effort when out on date. For example, if I’m sure the person will be there when I wake up and not ditch me right afterwards. I don’t go jumping into bed with just anyone.
Do sex partners (or potential sex partners) relate to you differently when they know you make porn films?
Yes they do, as a matter of fact. They either look at you as a simple piece of ass or they are intimidated or repelled. They sometimes are both attracted and repelled. Until my relationship now (which is great btw) I was pretty lonely for quite some time. Being with someone who is in the industry is different but also comforting because I’m not judged whatsoever.
What’s the biggest lie anyone ever told you, or you ever told someone else, in order to have sex?
Someone used a fake accent with me; made me believe they were from Spain or somewhere exotic and when we were done he played it off as if it was funny. So awful to think you hooked up with something cross country and then find out he’s just some guy from Nebraska.
What’s the most unusual or fun thing you have ever had up your ass?
People probably want to hear that I’ve had something wild like a door handle or something crazy like that, but the most exciting thing I have ever had up my ass is a penis. It will forever be the most exciting thing for me: good, old-fashioned, nothing-like-the-real-thing PENIS.
What is it about a person’s body that most makes you weak in the knees?
This may sound weird, but I love the space between a mans pecs. That and the happy trail on a nice stomach. It drives me up the wall. That alone can get my rocks off. I really like feeling the scruff of a man’s beard on my face. Makes me feel like I’m in the arms of a real man baby.
Where is the most daring place you have ever had sex? What did you do there?
Having sex in a train bathroom and being jacked off in the seat on a train from DC to New York. It was thrilling to me.
At what age did you first watch porn?
I was 13 and it was a porn I stole from my best friend’s dad. It was a vintage 70s str8 porn video which I thought was just the most awesome thing I had ever seen since Sailor Moon. haha
When did you lose your virginity? Who with?
Believe it or not, I lost my virginity when I was 16 to a girl named Jordan. Go figure. The girlfriend after that was named Cody. Are you seeing where this is going … all boy names.
Is porn a career or a hobby for you right now? What will come next?
I would have to say yes, it is a hobby right now. However I am looking to do more with the industry. My goals are to become a yoga instructor with my own studio and health nutritionist. So yes and no, it’s a hobby at the same time it is workI would have to say yes, it is a hobby right now. However I am looking to do more with the industry. My goals are to become a yoga instructor with my own studio and health nutritionist. So yes and no, it’s a hobby at the same time it is work.
What is the perfect sexual encounter?
I’m not sure how to answer this question without sounding like a slut. Nothing is more hot than meeting a hot complete stranger at the same time with someone you know.
Share something personal or amusing that reveals your human side.
I really get turned on when I hear a man belch or burp. It’s burly and just wrong on so many levels, but it’s real and I love the thought of how much a person can consume to make them do that. Hahaha. Isn’t that so weird?
Which food makes you horny?
Boston cream pie … hmmm mmm mmmm
Is there masturbation after death?
As long as it’s hard!!!
Extra Questions
You have also made films as Jasper St. John. Have you used other names? Why use more than one name?
Jasper St. John was the first name. I needed a name right away and my first agent Dak King gave it to me. After a year or so, I felt I couldn’t relate to the name nor did I care for it much, so I used my real first name and middle. If I’m going to do something I might as well do it with my name on it. Plus like my name and I don’t see myself teaching kids or running for president so … whatever, right?
Your body is extremely flexible. Are you a trained gymnast or classical dancer? How did you get to be so limber? Does it increase the intensity of getting fucked to be able to put your legs behind your ears?
I do have dancing background as an aerialist and modern dancer. I trained in modern dance and jazz for years growing up. I was also a swimmer and dancer growing up, so stretching keeping in shape is something I always maintain.
Can you suck yourself?
Although I am flexible I tried when I was younger to suck myself but had no luck. So I don’t think so … really have no need to.
How did you and Spencer become partners? How does it impact the dynamic of a relationship when both partners work in adult XXX?
Spencer and I met on a double date. We were wildly attracted to each other and we took it very slow, but things really gave way the beginning of this year 2010. It really doesn’t change the dynamic at all. He’s very professional and yes, sometimes I’m sure it bothers him like it bothers me when he’s away or I am on a gig. But he comes home to me and I to him and we are happy. We trust each other and I’m very proud of him and happy for his success. And it works. Outside of the industry we have a normal relationship. We do everything together. I wasn’t alive really till I met him. He satisfies me on every level, good and bad. I’ll take it all.
Do you have a job now apart from porn? What did you do before porn?
I actually have two jobs. I work part-time for an all males clothing store in Washington, DC, which is gay owned and operated. I love the people I work with. I also work for a cocoa bar/wine bar and we specialize in making all the chocolate and truffles, etc., ourselves there. It’s a total European style chocolate shop here in our nation’s capital. And I love it. Until I get my license for yoga and health it works and I enjoy it.
