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November 20, 2006
Gay For Pay 3: Sex and Violence
I just read this article about a homophobic gay for pay pornstar who murdered a gay man.
Gay-porn actor accused in businessman's slaying
When I was going to college in Russia, I had a wealthy friend whose favorite hobby was getting prostitutes. He went specifically for the penniless, desperate straight soldiers. He would pay to fuck them up the ass. My friend told me it was very dangerous but he liked the risk, and he always told me he was not interested in "gay sex" with his "sisters".
Well he was killed. The prostitute stabbed him 9 times all over his body in his throat and stomach. My friend was found lying in a pool of his own blood on the floor of a rented apartment. The straight soldier said that he was sexually abused, a story which won the sympathy of the Soviet jury.
If you really want to pay for sex, let's keep the money in the community- whether you are talking porn or your private sex life. I really hate those fags who hit on straight men. It's not just embarrassing, it's also dangerous. Like there are not enough hot gay men out there!
I've always thought that gay people should not get sexually involved with gay men.
See previously:
Gay For Pay Part 1
Gay For Pay Part 2
In my movies, I avoid working with straight models - and I don't buy that crap about "Well he can't be straight if he's fucking a guy up the ass." But let me tell you- if you have the sex drive of a guy in his 20s, not forgetting about viagra, cialis and all that stuff- it's not a problem to stick your cock in a vagina, ass or anything. If a goat could pay money, these straight guys would fuck goats too.
No matter how nice you treat a truly straight guy or how many gifts you buy him, he will hate you the more he fucks you. He is going against his nature. It's like having to be around a boss you hate- the more you are around them, the more you hate them. But at least with most bosses there is no physical contact. I suggest to all you guys out there who have this straight fantasy- for your own sake don't get involved with straight guys who hate, disrespect and despise you.
Posted by Michael at November 20, 2006 06:48 PM
Comments
Bravo Michael, very well said. Gay for pay has always been trouble, even when I was your age back in the 80's. Some of my friends messed with
str8 guys and either got robbed, beat up or worse. One famous guy here in Philadelphia was even murdered by a str8 hustler, and that is only one of many that occured. Keep up the good work and warn our "family" to be careful especially the young ones.
Thanks again,
Paul
Posted by: I wont grow up at November 20, 2006 11:34 PM
'Cause we were never being boring
We had too much time to find for ourselves
And we were never being boring
We dressed up and fought, then thought: "Make amends"
And we were never holding back or worried that
Time would come to an end
Posted by: retro at November 21, 2006 05:08 AM
It´s sad that people are kill because there gay, the religions have a god guilt on it
Posted by: Joao Baptista at November 21, 2006 06:31 AM
Every crime has a correct explanation of its perpetrator's motives and there are no sweeping generalities that can be applied to all cases of gay men being killed by "straight" men with whom they had sexual relations.
However, I believe that in some very large percentage of these cases, the "straight" men who kill gay men are in fact closeted gays, acting out on internalized homophobia.
They are so full of hate towards themselves for not being, inside, what society tells them they should be, that they literally go insane, killing a gay person, thinking that somehow that will erase their being gay themselves.
Anti-gay prejudice is still very pervasive in society and we are not making enough noise about how destructive it is. How many teenagers in Ted Haggard's 30 million member church organization committed suicide because of how shitty he made them feel with his condemnations of homosexuality, combined with their parents' echoing of those condemnations?
How many tens of thousands of elementary school children, today alone, got tormented to within an inch of their lives by bigotted children hurling anti-gay insults at them?
How dare Republicans behave as though civil rights were something that could be subjected to a plebescite? What are Bush and Mitt Romney going to do, put up a ballot initiative to repeal the Bill of Rights?
If you aren't angry about all the anti-gay horseshit, you aren't thinking about it in the right way.
Posted by: Scott Rose at November 21, 2006 11:53 AM
Wow! And then people say porn (mega)stars are completely dumb! I wouldn't question your IQ but you do sound like a down to earth honest guy. Thank you for your advice and stick to your values.
I really think is the forbidden that makes so interesting to fuck with straight men. I don't. I always want to feel some love back. And I'm not going to get it from a straight man. That is for sure.
All my love. I'll look for the Dolce Vita. Seems so hot.
Posted by: Artor at November 21, 2006 12:12 PM
Michael,
I agree with you on this. I know gay guys who are turned on by the thought of seducing straight guys and they are just asking for trouble. I think gay porn directors need to stop using straight models. They hate us but they take our money and I am sick of it.
Posted by: Marc at November 21, 2006 01:25 PM
Extremely well put. I may lust after the occasional straight guy, but I would never actually touch one. Gay dick is all I need.
Posted by: David at November 22, 2006 01:36 PM